Let's Talk | Comparison

...orrrrr so some guy called Theodore Roosevelt once quoted, smart guy huh? Comparison is something I have shamelessly done in the past and i'm sure i'm not alone in this, yup? Most likely at some point in your life you've compared your life, body, looks, hair, wealth, photo of breakfast on Instagram (lol i'm joking) - to someone else...but why? Well, for no good reason at all, because exactly as the quote says, comparison is a thief, it's the bad guy that makes you feel like everything you have is irrelevant because someone else 'has it so much better' and takes away your own (v precious) happiness...

Social media is such a huge industry now, filled with talented bloggers, artists, musicians, youtubers, even non celebrities have somehow became, celebrities? - it can sometimes feel like you're a wee fish swimming in a very big pond of people doing amazing things with their lives, and you're kinda doggy paddling to the surface - ya know what I mean?

We may look at these other people getting their book deals, their own beauty ranges, campaigns with big brands - whatever it may be - and think, eh, am I doing something wrong here?

Truth is, we're not doing anything wrong. Here's an example, i've fully grown out of my phase of wanting to be the next Zoella *cringe* - though i'll still admit yes, she is hugely successful from what she's done and that can make anyone a little bit envious, but it's just not me! Maybe it was when I was 13, but fast forward to 21, and I want different things from life and this blog - I want to provide more meaningful, good content and I have completely different tastes. If I copied what she did and followed the same route, maybe I would get successful, but then again, i'd be completely selling my soul and lying to myself and everyone around me! So what i'm trying to say is, don't get side tracked by other people's successes just because they appear "happier" and "wealthier" and just be yourself. Sooner or later, people will love what you do, because you do...and everyone has their own timing, so if success hasn't happened yet, it will, as long as you focus on your goals. The other people you keep comparing yourself to are probably doing something that is different to your own interests and also, their upbringing, life, social circle, family, situation, personality, mental health, confidence are not the same as yours and therefore everyone's experience, and timing, is different. Instead, see these people as a nod to this growing creative industry and as inspiration, but not as comparison/jealousy, cause that's when things get nasty! *raven voice*

The *sort of* comforting thing is that we all do compare every now and then, so remind yourself that there's probably someone out there that would love to have what you have, and you'll realise how great you've got things already. We've all got something someone else doesn't and that's why each and every one of us is soo bloody gr8 - we've all got something unique to bring to the table. Next time you catch yourself comparing your life to someone else's, switch off those side eye glasses, count your blessings, look straight ahead and keep doing YOU.


January Playlist

I'm back again with some of my favourite songs as of late...and some of my vinyl recommendations thrown into the mix as well.

I got Angel Olsen's 'My Woman' for Christmas and i'm listening to it as I write this post - I love this woman and her voice - an album filled with songs of sadness, pain and love. My favourite tracks are 'Shut Up Kiss Me' & 'Never Be Mine'... as well as all the rest to be honest...

Recently I picked up Weyes Blood's 'Front Row Seat To Earth'. Weyes Blood has a Carol King vibe and a euphoric voice that will fill you with nostalgia but with calmness and content all at the same time. My favourites are 'Seven Words' and 'Generation Why'. 

The same day I got Sonic Youth's 'Goo' - both from Probe Records in Liverpool. I've wanted to get my hands on Goo for quite some time - not gonna lie, I just really love the cover buuut i'd heard a few tracks off the album and decided to take the plunge and discover the rest. The album is a mix of cool melodic riffs, straight punk rock and an array of simple and complex song structures. My favourites are 'Kool Thing' and 'Dirty Boots'.

A mini playlist:

Lucie x


New Year, who dis?

It's finally 2017, yes! Don't get me wrong, 2016 wasn't all bad, just read my last post here where I actually found plenty of things to rave about...but I love that feeling of a fresh slate - to think about and plan all the things you want to achieve in the year ahead. Guaranteed there'll be ups and downs like any other year - but i'm feeling much more motivated and prepared for this year. I've thought pretty clearly about what i'd like to achieve, based on everything that didn't go quite to plan or as well as I'd hoped in previous years. Learn from your mistakes and all that, riiiight? 

Here are my resolutions:

- I want to read more. This has been something i've meant to do for ages! I used to read so much as a teenager...and then social media happened and 'scrolling' became the new 'reading' - nope, not anymore! I basically want to be like Matilda when she sits in the library all day long and reads book after book...

- To graduate with a 2:1 in my degree! Eeeee, yep it's my 3rd and final year of university and 2017 is the year I graduate. W.T.F...fingers crossed.

- Treat my body better with healthier foods... cut back on meat, drink more water, eat better, go running and be fitter in general.

- To enjoy my new part time job and get a good job after uni...it's probably a liiittle too soon to say where i'll be or what i'll be doing come the time I graduate, but I just hope that it's in a great job, well-paid, with lovely people to work with and that allows me to travel and do something I love doing!

- I want to travel, whenever I get the chance and have the money to. Go anywhere new and hop on a plane somewhere and continue to travel for the rest of my life, plzzzz.

- Just have a great 2017 in general: be happier, worry less, love more and spread love, be creative, inspired, see films, do new things...

...well, that's not toooo much to ask is it?! What can I say, I have big expectations... I'm really going to make an effort to follow these resolutions through and just improve overall as a person...here's to 2017!
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